Freedom comes with Responsibility

One is exposed to so much information nowadays yet regardless of the exposure all this is not utilised accordingly and to its core purpose. Information am referring to is raging from family values, principles, proper upbringing and Education (religion, institution of learning, sex education) to mention a few.

We grow up in households where respect is instilled at an early age yet as we grow up that is the first thing we start to lose and always tend to go the other direction. The reality of it all Freedom comes with Responsibility.

One enters higher institution of learning knowing full well what they are there for, because of the freedom that one is not used to having the direction seems take to take a different route. We lose those values, principles and the education that is known to us.

Staying far away from home is there best time for one to be able to adjust grow and fends for one self. You are exposed to the world as it is. Your character is shown during this time of your life. This is when you get to know yourself and what you stand for. Your values and self consciousness are at the most vulnerable and yet fragile at this point.

This is the time when all that you were though at home come into action this is the practical world. This is when you must choose the sheeps from wolves. This is when the wolves are covered in sheeps cloth. This is a very crucial part of your growth and well being.

Priorities play are very crucial and vital at this stage as you have accessed to everything you need to be able to differentiate what is that you need and what is it that you don’t really need at this point in time. Party life vs Study life is very stressful when one cannot priorities. There will always be parties and bashes round about the same time as submissions of assignment and test that must be written and one needs to prepare for those thoroughly.

There are no parents that will be there to be holding your hand during this time You are alone and you will need to stand up for what you believe in and make it work. Most importantly you need you need to remember what your main aim goal and objective is.




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2 thoughts on “Freedom comes with Responsibility

  1. Yes – Its like your Dad pays for all your Varsity fees including Residence , he buys you abrand new car and gives you an allowance every month at the end of the day you fail of you first year subjects… that too much freedom?! these are some challenges some parents go through.


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